Why sleep feels harder after 40


Hey Reader,

If your sleep has started to feel lighter, more broken, or just… harder than it used to be — you’re not imagining it.

As we move through our 40s and into perimenopause, changes in oestrogen and progesterone can seriously disrupt sleep. And when sleep suffers, everything else tends to wobble too: hunger, cravings, mood, motivation, energy.

This isn’t a willpower issue. It’s biology.

Here are three gentle, realistic ways to support better sleep in this season of life.

  1. Protect your wind-down like it matters (because it does) One of the biggest shifts we see is that the nervous system becomes more sensitive to stress.

If your evenings are rushed, stimulating, or screen-heavy, your body often stays in “alert mode” — even when you’re exhausted.

Try this instead:

Pick one small cue that tells your body the day is ending

Dim lights earlier

Swap scrolling for something repetitive or calming

You’re not trying to force sleep. You’re creating the conditions for it.

2. Eat in a way that supports overnight regulation Poor sleep and hunger hormones are closely linked.

When sleep is fragmented:

  • hunger hormones increase
  • fullness signals drop
  • cravings feel louder and more urgent

Two simple things that often help:

  • Don’t undereat during the day
  • Include protein (and ideally some carbs) at dinner

A body that feels fuelled is more likely to settle.

3. Anchor your mornings, not just your nights This one surprises people.

Sleep is heavily influenced by your circadian rhythm, which responds strongly to morning cues.

If possible:

  • Get outside early in the day
  • Move your body (even gently)
  • Eat a regular breakfast

These signals help your body know when it’s time to be awake — which makes it easier to wind down later.

So, here's the thing, when you sleep well, everything else feels that bit easier. Cravings go down and your energy returns!

Good sleep makes all the difference.

We'd love to know if your sleep has changed?

Anna & Charlotte
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